The Domina Kathryn is Now Based in WASHINGTON, DC !

SHE Who Must Be Obeyed!!! is now based in Washington, DC and ready for new Submissives who are found worthy to kneel in homage before her!

Welcome ...

I AM VERY HAPPY TO ANNOUNCE THAT MY NEW WEBSITE IS NOW ONLINE! PLEASE COME VISIT IT AT: www.DominaKathryn.Com THANK YOU.

"Thou art to me a delicious torment" - Emerson

Welcome! I am SHE Who Must Be Obeyed ! ... The Domina Kathryn - a Mature Domestic Discipline Specialist located on the East Central Florida coast.

My interest in dominance is lifelong and informs every aspect of my eroticism. Your submission to me, your masochism – these things can be expressions of great fortitude and trust, and I will answer your efforts with strength and compassion. BDSM exploration can yield us truly profound experiences, connections, and personal insight, and I am delighted to be able to offer you my guidance and support on your journey.

I am a mature safe, sane, and consensual player. This means I will respect your limits and I will not engage in activities that carry an inherent risk of injury in my professional play. That said, most activities we engage in, including BDSM, do carry a measure of risk. I encourage you to examine these risks before you play. I am always happy to answer your questions or refer you to reputable sources of information. Please be aware of the following boundaries before contacting me: I do not approach SM from a place of pathology: that is to say, I am not interested in engaging in physically or emotionally damaging activities, inflicting permanent marks, playing without a safeword, or otherwise violating the bounds of consent. I expect anyone who contacts me to share this mindset. I am strict and firm tempered by wisdom and experience.

I delight in guiding your first explorations into the magic of BDSM. However, before we meet it is important to me that you have enough knowledge to be able to ask for what you want and express your limits. Please feel free to read through this blog before you take that first step and contact me.

DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE

Domestic Discipline enthusiasts are a special breed. My entrance into kinky play came by way of an early passion for spanking and role play. Private explorations with organizations like Shadow Lane and spanking circles around the country introduced me to a group of people whose devotion to the proper administration of punishment demonstrated an extraordinary attention to detail and a love of traditional images of strict control and proper correction.

What’s truly kinky about domestic discipline is the eroticization of everyday objects and settings: a hairbrush retrieved from Mother’s purse; a wooden ruler from the teacher’s desk; your Aunt’s heavy wooden spoon; the school nurse’s discipline paddle. Many people are drawn to age play, which offers a distinctly grown-up retreat into the carelessness (and powerlessness) of childhood. Punishable offenses may range from possession of contraband (chewing gum, a pack of Lucky Strikes, an inappropriate magazine) to being caught red-handed in Mother’s panty drawer. Others appreciate the ritual of role play but prefer to remain in their adult selves when receiving discipline. And still others love spanking for the pure, passionate sensation of spanking. With or without role play, an extended visit over the knee can be a magical combination of submissive masochism and deep tissue massage!

I devote special areas of my play space to domestic discipline, free from any form of dungeon apparatus, decorated in traditional 1950s fashion with light, breezy colors and equipped with the finest wooden hairbrushes, paddles, straps and canes. I have a personal fetish for retro-fashion and I collect period dresses, aprons, and foundation garments which capture the essence of traditional female strength and beauty.



I consider BDSM a form of creative self-expression which utilizes fantasy to challenge, exhilarate, arouse, and de-stress. My intention with any scene is to engineer a unique and engaged experience which incorporates the desires of My subjects in a way which is pleasing to Me. I do not need to impress you with histrionic prose concerning My dominance, nor can I tell you how you will feel when you meet Me. I do not believe such things can be foreseen, however, you may expect that I shall handle the gift of your submission with respect and dignity. I expect you to reciprocate.

On the more practical side of things:

I live in my play space which is located along the Indian River in Rockledge, Florida , and is completely private and well-equipped - I even have a "Whippin' Shed" out back.

If you would like to inquire about the possibility of a session: I require that you send a polite email to: DominaKathryn@Gmail.Com.

YOU SHOULD NOTE: WITHOUT EXCEPTION I require a minimum of 24 hours notice to arrange a session, with 48 hours or more being ideal. I never do same day/last minute sessions with Submissives.

IF THIS WILL BE YOUR FIRST TIME VISITING ME: When I receive your email inquiry, I will reply within two hours and will include further information about me and my sessions as well as provide you with my standard New Submissive Questionnaire for planning our session together. After I have reviewed your responses to that questionnaire, I will telephone you to introduce myself. Feel free to include calling parameters (times, etc.), I am respectful and discrete.

IF I HAVE SEEN YOU PREVIOUSLY: You may either send me an email or telephone me at the direct telephone number I previously provided you and we can arrange a session together. However, email is preferred.

~~~~~~~If you live too far away from me to book a regular session, or, if you would like to discuss your session at length over the phone:

You may make call me at 1-800-863-5478 using my special pin 94-68-691 or use the button below ...the charge is only $1.99 per minute.

My NiteFlirt line is an excellent resource for those individuals who wish to experience a session with me, but for any reason are not able to come meet with me in person.~~~~

I accept requests for sessions from all genders and orientations. Couples are enthusiastically welcomed as well.

Please refer to the text below for a fuller understanding of the particulars of my style and approach.

My Interests:

Domestic Discipline
- Recreational Scoldings; and,
- Over the Knee Spanking, paddling, belts, straps, wooden spoons

Corporal Punishment
- Every aspect, including canes, throwing implements (re: single tail, signal whip, and flogger), NT, CBT (squeezing, clothespins, bondage), trampling, face slapping, hot wax, mouth soaping, sitting in the corner, etc., etc., etdelightfulcetera!

Bondage
- I love the beauty and intimacy of extended rope bondage, saran wrap, and time spent in my Red SMOTHER BOX!, etc.

Cross Dressing

Fetishes
- I indulge most fetishes, but I particularly enjoy those subs with a foot fetish

Sensory Deprivation
- Breath play, mummification, blindfolds, hoods

Role Play
- Especially scenes which incorporate a beloved book or movie.

Dislikes:

Edge Play
- Needles, scalpels, no blood and no vomit!

Guidelines

Contacting a professional dominant for the first time can be daunting, regardless of your experience level. After all, we are in the business of unseating power and administering pain, both of which can be scary things to confront in another human being. To complicate matters further, each dominant has a distinct set of rules and expectations for potential play partners, often unspoken and unwritten, making the entire exchange that much more difficult to negotiate gracefully.

I'd like to help. Below are guidelines for proceeding with me in a way that will ensure my happiness (and who doesn't want that?). Some of this information is specific to me, but much of it you'll also find helpful in your dealings with other professionals, BDSM or otherwise

I am a lifestyle BDSM educator. The primary focus of every session I create is some aspect of dominance and submission, pain and power exchange, bondage and discipline, and/or sadomasochism. If you are interested in contacting me, you will respect that I do not provide a sexual service. Before contacting me, I will expect you to have read this site carefully.

Courtesy: First and foremost, it is important to know that when you come to see me you will be spending time with someone who will treat you with consideration, respect, and discretion. I expect the same courtesies from you.

Before you contact me: Take stock of your interests and desires, then read this Blog thoroughly. I have worked hard to make sure it accurately represents me. Neither of us is interested in wasting time and energy on an encounter that proves frustrating because we are working at cross-purposes. Making sure that our interests and expectations are in line prior to meeting is the surest route to helping us create a delightful BDSM exchange.

When you speak with me: Our first conversation is a time to speak intelligently and exchange information. Of course, it always helps to be polite, respectful, and to answer my questions honestly and concisely. When in doubt about whether we share an interest, please do ask. I assure you I don't shock easily.

Appointments: I have established procedures for setting up sessions, confirming appointments, and granting admission to my play space. I appreciate those who pay attention to the instructions I give and show me the courtesy of following them precisely.

Rates: My time is valuable and so is yours! I charge by the hour with a one hour minimum. Presently my rates begin at $200 for one hour.

Cancellations: Please treat the appointments you make with me as you would an appointment with any other professional. If you find you need to cancel or reschedule, you may do so via telephone and at least 24 hours prior to our appointment time – you should leave a message if I do not answer. Sometimes, despite your best efforts, you may find you need to cancel at the last minute. These things happen, and in such cases please call me as soon as possible. In general, last minute cancellations require remuneration of at least one-third of the total session fee.

When you arrive: Please be cognizant of the world around you. Show respect for my space and my neighbors in your dress and demeanor. If you've brought something for me or for our play, please make sure it's wrapped in discreet packaging, and that your tribute has been counted prior to your arrival in my neighborhood. I know coming to a stranger's house can be scary, but do refrain from pacing or exhibiting nervous behavior. When you're expected, it's best to just walk purposefully up to the door and knock or ring the bell. Don't worry; once you're inside you'll be well looked after.

A note on grooming: I prefer the clean scent of freshly scrubbed skin to that of any cologne on my play partners (Aveda products are an exception). However, I am also a woman who enjoys smelling vaguely delicious herself. If you are scent-sensitive, do let me know during our confirmation call so that I may adjust my toilette accordingly.

Step into my Parlour ...

Welcome to my House of Pain ...

Located near the Indian River in Rockledge, Florida - on Florida's "Space Coast", approximately 40 miles east of Orlando. My home is a private, dedicated play space that couples old-world charm with a superb array of state-of-the-art equipment designed to titillate and test your senses. This classic Spanish style bungalow features beautifully appointed play rooms, and a shower and powder room for your comfort, all with high ceilings, early 20th century architecture and great attention to décor.

The Predicament Parlour - features furniture that is equaled in beauty only by its devastating functionality. The bondage table is both designed for intricate rope and leather bondage, and are as beautiful and strong as the woman who straps you down. Floggers, single tails, leather straps, sensory deprivation devices, and a dizzying assortment of leather fetters are all at my disposal ... it also has all the comforts of an elegant sitting room - for me, that is. The Chamber features a beautiful antique throne and kneeling area, rich draperies and gilded mirrors. The fireplace mantle holds books for my perusal and your edification. If the worship is mine, the pain is yours... The Spiderweb is a particularly gorgeous piece that allows me to weave you limb by limb into an intricate and inescapable web.

Mother's Room - is devoted to classic domestic discipline. This exquisite and versatile bedroom is the perfect place for scenarios that require a traditional setting free from any sort of dungeon apparatus. Over-the-knee spanking in the private room of Mother, Governess, or the Dean of Discipline; thorough examination in the suburban nurse's clinic; or gentle diapering and correction for adult babies in the exquisitely equipped nursery are all scenarios that play beautifully in Mother's Room. Don't let the soft colors and welcoming décor fool you: this room is wonderfully equipped with a stinging assortment of paddles, straps, canes, and hairbrushes.

Mother's Room also provides an intimate setting for your transformation from trousers and ties to something distinctly more feminine. Under the crystal chandelier you'll find leather corsetry, beautiful dresses, and a wide assortment of high heels, as well as a sexy assortment of thongs, tap panties, satin and lace bikinis, garter belts, stockings, push-up bras and silk slips. This romantic sitting room also features an excellent library of kinky books.

The Kitsch Kitchen - is an homage to 1950s home life, when a hand in the cookie jar would land you in a heap of trouble. For naughty boys and girls who need a wooden spoon taken to their bottom, my kitchen is a playful place to misbehave! This kitchen offers kinky options for those who like to play in a "real-life" setting.

and out back behind the house is the ...

Whippen' Shed - enough said ;) For particularly unruly and naughty boys and girls who need to be whipped into submissive obedience!

Ready to Book a Session? ...

Before you contact me, please remember my list of limits:

I will not engage in play that involves:

Sexual contact
Alcohol or other inebriants
Wrestling
Cutting or Piercing.

PLEASE NOTE:

My sessions focus exclusively on BDSM. Kindly refrain from contacting me if you are looking for a directly sexual service.

I prefer that you make initial contact with me via email: DominaKathryn@Gmail.Com

The FASTEST way to reach me is by EMAIL. All Emails are returned within 2 hours.

For your planning purposes, please note that I typically need at least 24 hours advance notice with 48 hours or more preferred. If you are traveling to Orlando, Florida or have a smaller window of opportunity, you should contact me as soon as possible. I refuse all requests for same day/last minute requests from new guests.

Established Guests: Please feel free to contact me via email (preferred) or telephone for an appointment. Be sure to include a few possible dates and times when you write.

Thank you!

What do you desire?

Some of my favorite play scenarios ...

Domestic Discipline - A spanking? You are not a little kid anymore! You protest, but I take you over my knee anyway, holding you firmly in place as I begin my humiliating assault on your backside. You try to steel yourself, but my hand is heavy, and deep down you know you deserve it. Tears spring to your eyes – you don't know how much longer you can hold them back. Thankfully, the onslaught stops just in time. You climb off my lap, proud that your eyes, though burning, are still dry. I hold your chin, forcing you to look me in the eye. The disappointment you see there chastens you, but it's the tenderness that's unbearable. You blink desperately, but the tears spill over anyway. Yes, you deserved this. And oh, what a relief it is to get it at last...

Power dynamics are inherently collaborative and endlessly engaging. Each of us brings to the exchange something delightful for the other to enjoy. I give you my close attention, showering you with little intimacies and torments designed to induce your willing submission. Your sighs, your whimpers, your shudders, your tears – these are the means by which you thank me. I adore lovely things, and nothing is more beautiful to me than your heady surrender, nothing more perfect than your unheeded desire...

My implements of control:

– Bondage, Restriction, Restraint (using rope, leather, and metal
– Seduction and Denial
– Embarrassing Predicaments
– Male Disempowerment Training
– Sensory Deprivation and Overload
– Granting the worship of my extremities

Diaper Play - My hands graze over you, smoothing unruly wisps of hair, adjusting your bib, checking your diaper for telltale moisture. I smile down, my eyes whispering what you already know: you are safe with me. As you watch my gentle bustlings, you sigh softly. You feel completely vulnerable, perfectly content – you have finally come home to yourself again.

Play involving age regression holds a special place in my heart. As grownups we are rarely allowed to let go of our accountability, and the responsibilities of adulthood often lay heavily on our shoulders. It can be a profound relief to let these concerns go for a time – to allow ourselves to feel the carelessness and vulnerability of childhood again...

Domestic Discipline and Age Play

Headstrong young men and ladies will find their willful behavior quickly and thoroughly corrected in my private quarters. Naughty girls and boys will learn the consequences of giving in to temptation when they find themselves over my knee. Though strict, I am interested in your growth rather than your debasement. After all, I do not believe that you are incorrigible. You just need an authoritative, compassionate woman to guide you back to your good intentions... and a firm hand to keep you there!

My implements of Domestic and Institutional Discipline:
– Over-the-Knee Spanking
– Traditional Corporal Punishment
– Scolding and Admonishments
– Mouth Soaping
– Corner Time
– Recitations
– Embarrassing Examinations by the School Nurse.

Adult infants will be coddled and cared for in a soft, sweetly decorated nursery. Misbehaving men and adult incontinents will find themselves diapered and swaddled in plastic pants before they know what's happening – forcibly, if necessary. Whether you are a true adult baby, a sissy, or someone who simply enjoys the sensation of wearing a diaper, I invite you to explore with me this delightfully taboo arena of play.

My favorite pastimes in the Nursery:
– Infantilism and Adult Baby Play
– Adult Diapering and Embarrassing Predicaments
– Sissification
– Specialized Discipline for rambunctious little ones

Pain Play - Stay, do not turn your head away. I want you to see who's doing this to you. See how much pleasure it accords me: the surprise in your eyes when I touch you gently, the answering glint in mine as I begin. Pain steals over you slowly, intensifies, becomes intolerable – you plead for its end. Finally, I pull away, and you find it unbearable. How it makes me tremble to watch you suffer for me, how my palms perspire. I allow you a few breaths before I move in again. You are surprised anew at how gentle my touch can be, how dark the glint in my eye. You try to prepare yourself for what you know will come, but it's fruitless – pain licks at you again, intensifies, makes you swoon. The world disappears around us, leaving only your skin, my hands, your whimpers, my smile.

Pain is a great teacher. For some it is a necessary corrective measure, arduous but effective. For others it provides a diverting catharsis, enrapturing in its intensity. As a skilled, empathetic sadist, I relish leading you on an intensive and enlightening journey you will find difficult to forget. In the domestic setting, it is my responsibility, and my pleasure, to ensure that you learn your lesson very thoroughly...

My implements of pain and correction:
– Traditional Corporal and Domestic Discipline
– Percussive Impact Play
– Precise Nipple and Geni-torment
– Wicked Predicaments

Bondage - Relax, my dear, you're not going anywhere. My bonds will hold. You hear the creaking of leather and the feel the heavy clink of chains as you twist to watch me ready the ropes. I close in and slowly begin to weave them over you. You close your eyes to better feel them conduct their sly vibrations across your skin. At length, I step back, and your apprehension mounts as you realize your predicament. You strain, but you know it's futile. I close in again, a quiet smile playing across my lips. A delicious languor steals over you. There is no help for it; you are mine to torment.

Trans(gender)formation - You feel my eyes on you, and you blush. It embarrasses you to think about how good you feel this way, all dolled up in satin and lace, teetering a little on your heels. You glance up, hoping to see in my face a reflection of what you feel, that you are beautiful, desirable. Yes, you see it there, my eyes raking over you so appraisingly, my smile betraying my admiration for every angle and curve. You are a pretty thing after all.

In this world we are expected to live our lives within the bounds of our assigned gender roles – maintaining them no matter how they may chafe or restrict us. This is an unfortunate state of affairs, but also a convenient one, as it means playing with gender is extremely taboo. And what is more thrilling than playing with forbidden things? Especially when they are silky, and lacy, and make you look sooo pretty...

Courses of study at my Finishing School:
– Instruction in the Feminine Arts
– Hussy Training and Objectification Play
– Complete Transformations
– Cross-Dressing and Lighter Forms of Gender Subversion